However, now is the time for you to reevaluate the source of these expectations who is it that is demanding you to achieve these things?ĭo you push yourself to complete a certain amount of work each day that is significantly more than the expectations of your position? Or perhaps you do everything in your power to make a certain amount of income each month, resulting in an extended period of overwork and exhaustion. There are times where this emotional turmoil stems from the inability to meet the expectations placed upon you in the work environment. At these times, it is particularly easy to fall into cycles of negative thinking, which only serve to bring your mood down even further. With job struggles come financial issues you may be simultaneously trying to cope with the stressors that come with economic instability. You may have recently lost your job, been demoted, gotten into a spot of hot water with your superiors or coworkers, or even be struggling with a period of chronic unemployment. You may also be facing a particularly tumultuous time in your professional life. Think of all of the potential partners out there that you now have the freedom to pursue! Your perfect person is out there, but sometimes we have to go through a few speedbumps before we reach our final destination. Take a step back and look at the person that has emerged from this situation imagine how beautiful they are in the eyes of others! There is happiness out there for you, even if it seems like the romantic spark in your life has fizzled out. This is normal, and it is natural there are very few people that are meant to stay in our lives for extended periods of time. You may have had good times together, but the portions of your life that were meant to overlap have now passed. If someone is not willing to maintain a romantic relationship with you, then it is a sign that they were not meant to be yours. It seems as though you can’t get your mind off of what could have been, as opposed to what you have come out of it with. In coping with the pain of this development, it has been easy to fall into a cycle of depression and rage. You may be struggling with the loss of a relationship, or a rejection from someone that you were hoping to start a relationship with. Things have not been smooth sailing in your romantic life as of late. This may be a sign that you are focusing too much of your time and energy into grieving what you have lost, as opposed to appreciating what you still have left. Even in the face of these hardships, there is a silver lining to the pain that you are currently experiencing. It can be particularly frustrating when these changes are not your fault oftentimes, it can feel as though you try your hardest, only to be knocked down by forces that you have no power to control or influence. You may also be on the cusp of losing something, and it may feel as though there is nothing you can do to stop it. This may be the loss of a loved one, the end of a long-term relationship, financial hardship, or the loss of a peaceful environment to live in. Coping with loss is one of the hardest things that we will need to face during our lifetimes. This card is traditionally representative of a particularly tumultuous time in our lives, such as in the case of sudden and devastating loss, or when one is forced to deal with the consequences of large upheavals in the status quo. “ It’s a funny thing about life, once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that you lack.” – Germany Kent
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